Beeld - Donderdag 12 Februarie 2009
Moenie opgee op kind met breinskade, sê ma
Philip de Bruin - Beeld Donderdag 12 Februarie 2009
Op 6 Oktober 1997 het Roald Rudman se “lyk” onder ’n kombers in sy ouerhuis in Pretoria gelê en het ’n polisieman hom amptelik dood verklaar.
Vandeesweek het die einste Roald sy 14de verjaardag gevier, springlewend en gesond, maar verstandelik erg gestrem.
Roald het destyds, toe hy amper drie jaar oud was, in die swembad by sy huis geval waar sy broer hom “leweloos” uitgeduik het.
Die polisie en nooddienste is ontbied. Die polisie was eerste op die toneel en die polisiebeampte wat na Roald omgesien het, het hom dood verklaar. ’n Kombers is oor sy gesig gegooi en weggetrek toe Roald se ma, me. Elna Rudman, tuis opgedaag het om aan haar te bewys dat haar kind nie meer leef nie.
Kort daarna het mediese nooddienste op die toneel opgedaag, nadat Roald reeds 15 minute “dood onder die kombers” was en opnuut sy lewe probeer red.
Wat vandag as ’n wonderwerk beskou word, het daartoe gelei dat ’n polsslag by Roald gevoel is.
Dié situasie het enkele jare gelede gelei tot ’n unieke hofgeding tussen Roald se ouers en die polisie. Sy ouers het aangevoer dat die polisieman nalatig was om Roald dood te verklaar.
Die appèlhof het uiteindelik in die guns van die egpaar beslis.
Roald se ma het vandeesweek gesê Roald “bly ons lieflingkind, ons geskenk van God”.
“Hy herstel tans ná drie ortopediese operasies sedert Oktober 2008. Ons dapper seun is daardeur, maar sy ma is 30 jaar ouer en het baie trane gestort,” het Roald se ma gesê.
Sy het gesê Roald praat reeds ’n paar woordjies.
“My boodskap aan ander ouers met sulke kinders is: Moet nooit opgee nie. Ek weet ék kan nie, want ons dapper kind verdien
elke bietjie hulp, liefde en sorg.”
Nota: Korreksie ek het nie vir pers gesê dat my kind erg verstandelik gestrem is nie, dit is 'n afleiding - hy is wel erg motories aangetas maar sy intellek makeer absoluut niks volgens ons wat hom ken nie!
NOTE: By doing a Google search with content Elna Rudman or Roald Rudman you will find various news articles of Roald published during our court case that lasted 8 years......
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Kids, water and drowning by Amy Henderson
Last summer more than 400 people drowned in South Africa. Many of them were children. Unless your children are little fish already, every parent should approach the swimming season with the intention to put children’s love of splashing around to constructive use, and teach them to swim, hold their breath, and stay afloat.
It's barely Spring yet and already this month Netcare 911 has reported attending to three near drownings all involving young children and swimming pools:
In one incident in Pretoria a child had fallen into a swimming pool. His mother had applied first aid treatment and he was transported to hospital in a serious condition
Exactly a week before a three-year-old boy in Edenvale, Johannesburg had been found at the bottom of a swimming pool and had to be airlifted to hospital in critical condition.
Then on September 3 another child, this time a two-year-old girl fell into a swimming pool in Benoni, Johannesburg and was taken to hospital in a stable condition.
These are the lucky ones who survived, but with many more hot days ahead, some might not be so fortunate.
"In fact, drowning is fourth on the list of causes of unnatural deaths among children. The other three are guns, car accidents and burns.
"The stories of the adults and parents on the different scenes are all very similar," says Nick Dollman of Netcare 911. "Children slip away unnoticed and they are later found in the water. Often it is unclear how long they have been in the water and deprived of oxygen."
Even if the child initially revives, tragedy may follow. "Drowning" is the term used when a person dies due to a lack of oxygen to the heart and brain. "Near-drowning" is when a person has survived after having suffocated in water or another fluid – but survival can be accompanied by damage to the respiratory system, a build-up of fluid in the lungs after recovery. This, in turn, could lead to pneumonia or even a fatal condition called "late drowning".
For every child who drowns, says Dollman, five are left with permanent brain damage as a result of the prolonged lack of oxygen during a near drowning. It takes only four minutes without oxygen for irreversible brain damage to occur.
And children certainly don’t only drown in deep swimming pools.
Child drownings are preventable
"A few hundred millimetres of water can be fatal to a small child, and parents and childminders need to be aware of the water hazards in and around the home - including swimming pools, fish ponds, water features, toilets, pets' water bowls, dams, streams and rivers, bore holes and open drains, to name a few," says Dollman.
"We have even attended to a small child who had fallen into a large plastic bucket that was being used to clean nappies," he said.
Dollman said that he had attended several scenes where the child of a domestic worker had drowned, or nearly drowned, at their parents’ place of work.
"Some of these children are from other provinces and come to visit their family for the holidays and are not familiar with swimming pools and the hazards they pose. In fact, some of the employers, who did not have small children, had not protected their pools with the right covering, which led to the tragedy."
Children (especially one to three-year-olds) are most at risk, and supervision is therefore always needed if a child is near water. Because of the disproportionate weight of their heads, toddlers can easily topple over and find it difficult to lift their heads to breathe.
Recognising an emergency
A swimmer who is struggling to breathe may be unable to call for help; so if the swimmer's strokes become erratic and jerky or stop entirely, or if the body sinks so that only the head shows above the water, you can take it that this person is in trouble.
If, when they’re on dry land, their breathing is laboured, or if they’re unable to control their coughing, get help.
They might also have a blue tinge to their skin colour. Their skin may be pale and cool.
They may vomit, or have a swollen stomach
They may appear stunned or to be losing consciousness, and their pulse may be very rapid, weak or slow.
If the person is not breathing, unconscious or you suspect a spinal injury, call the emergency services immediately.
Drowning incidents per city/province
Western Cape: 88
Eastern Cape: 34
North West: 18
Gauteng is the inland province with the highest incidence of drownings/near drownings, and the majority of these occur in unprotected swimming pools.
Alcohol and adult drowning
"Alcohol and water, or water sports, are a potentially fatal combination. Never dive into any water if the water is murky or if you cannot see the bottom; people have died or sustained serious and permanent spinal damage after diving from boats or jetties into rivers, lakes and dams - all sorts of hazards lie beneath the water surface such as rocks, broken glass bottles and sand banks."
Prevention of drowning
Be vigilant when children are around water.
Keep pool gates locked, or cover the pool with a certified pool net.
Ensure gates and nets are in a good condition and free of damage or holes.
Employ electronic splash sensors that trigger an alarm when a splash is detected.
Take a basic course in first aid and CPR – it can make a dramatic difference in the outcome should the skills be applied in time.
In any emergency situation, immediately contact the correct emergency number for the relevant authority.
Memorise the number for emergency services in your area and keep the number saved in your cell phone or close to your landline telephone.
What you can do to help
The national emergency number for Netcare 911 is 082-911. For first aid courses phone the Netcare 911 School of Emergency and Critical Care at 011-695-9600 .
(Amy Henderson, Health24, updated September 2008)
The first principle is safety; never try to rescue someone if it will endanger your life. Rather call for help.
If a spinal injury is suspected and CPR is not required, the person should not be moved.
Keep them lying face up until help arrives as the water will immobilise the spine.
If the person has to be moved, slide a board under his head, back and buttocks, taking care to keep the head and neck aligned.
If the person is not breathing but has a pulse, perform mouth-to-mouth breathing immediately. Don't waste time by trying to drain swallowed water.
If the person starts breathing again, he is likely to vomit. Place him on his side with his head lower than his torso to clear the airway.
If the person has a spinal injury, take care to keep the head and neck in alignment at all times.
If there is no pulse, place the person on a hard surface and do CPR, taking care not to extend the head backwards.
Place the person in the recovery position if there are no spinal injuries.
Keep him warm and treat for hypothermia if necessary.
Call a doctor if someone has nearly drowned even if they have recovered completely
Dollman suggested the following:
Dollman pointed out that adult drownings can often be linked to a combination of drinking alcohol and playing water sports.
433 adult and child drowning/near-drowning incidents were attended to by Netcare 911 between 1 September 2006 and 31 August 2007
It may not always be obvious that a person is in trouble. Know that these are the signs for which you should be looking:
written by Elna Rudman
Selling price: R150-00
Trauma & tragedies were regular visitors to the Rudman family. These prompted Elna Rudman to write about the tsunamis following their path in the hope to help others cope. Family deaths by unnatural causes, stormy marriage in diplomatic circles, near-drowning, suicide, brain injury and a court case of many years are all ingredients supplying the book's name: "Living in the fast lane". Buy & Download here
All proceeds to go to Roald's trust for his ongoing care
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